Virginia McMulkin
- Jan 11
- 2 min read

Virginia Marie McMulkin (Weiser) passed away peacefully on 12/31/2025 at the age of 84. Virginia was born February 1,1941 in Bison, Kansas to Frank and Regina Weiser. She grew up on a farm outside of Norton, Kansas. She attended school at a one room country school house until 8th grade where she was generally the only student in her class.
Virginia graduated in 1959 from Norton High School. She met her future husband Francis (Bill) William McMulkin at the Norton city pool, although neither of them knew how to swim. They were married September 3, 1960. They moved around Kansas for several years while Bill taught at various schools, and had three children, Kevin, Kay and Mark. They ventured to Washington State in 1967 for Bill to complete his Masters degree at W.S.U. They moved to Spokane and lived in the same house in Spokane since 1968. Virginia completed her Bachelor of Science college degree at E.W.U. in 1974. She worked as a Dietitian at Holy Family Hospital, and as a Food Service Manager at Valley Hospital and at Deaconess Hospital, all totaling nearly 30 years. Her husband of over 25 years died on December 23, 1987.
Virginia and Bill raised three children. She was a devoted mother. She cherished time with her family. She and Bill took their family camping, boating, hiking, and many summer trips back to Kansas to visit relatives. Virginia especially enjoyed time at their Diamond Lake cabin. She had years and years of many cherished memories surrounded by her entire family of long summer days at the lake.
She was an avid reader of cookbooks and delighted in finding and trying new recipes. She enjoyed shopping and was always stylishly dressed for work and home. She learned to swim in her 50s, took up cross-country skiing, and enjoyed her grandchildren. She volunteered with Spokane Valley Meals on Wheels. She was active with Catholic Daughters at St John Vianney Catholic Church.
Despite her later years being marked by the challenges of Parkinson’s Disease, she faced each day with courage and grace. She was a determined and delightful person that left a lasting impression. Her legacy is one of warmth, generosity, and faith and it will continue to shine brightly through the memories she leaves behind.
Virginia is survived by her three children and their spouses: Kevin and Lisa McMulkin, Kay and Ernie Gasseling, and Mark and Bethany McMulkin; nine grandchildren: Steve Gasseling, Rachel (Drew) Oord, Michelle Gasseling, Molly McMulkin, Sophie McMulkin, Megan (Jordan) Christian, Wendy McMulkin, Julie McMulkin, Anna McMulkin; and one great grandchild Kaylee Oord. She is also survived by one brother Leon (Jolene), two sisters Marcita (Wayne) Scharnhorst, and Carol (JC) Field, sister-in-law Betty (Ron) Frank, sister-in-law Cathy McMulkin, brother-in-law Mike (Linda) McMulkin. She was preceded in death by her husband Bill, her parents, brother Larry, sister Rita, in-laws Vic and Ruth McMulkin, and sister-in-law Marilyn McMulkin.
Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 am Friday, January 23, 2026 at St John Vianney Catholic Church, Spokane Valley. Burial will be at the Pines Cemetery at 2:00 pm. In- lieu of flowers please donate to the Spokane Valley Meals on Wheels (www.mowgsc.org).




The best Grammy in the world.
Dear Kevin, Kay and Mark; I am sooo sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing her with me! I don’t know where I’d be in life without all of you! When I needed an older brother and ski lessons there you were Kevin. When I needed summer fun and kite boarding lessons you stepped up Kay. Mark…. My dearest friend for 56 years! Thanks for all of the great memories and friendship! Dad McMulkins thanks for putting up with me. Mom… I was that child who needed extra love and guidance. You always had time for me. Even when I turned 40 I had health issues and you taught me about nutrition! I will miss you very much! Thanks for…
I served on the Board of Greater Spokane County Meals on Wheels with her for many years. Ginnie was so dedicated and did so much for the organization. And she was always so friendly and upbeat. Meals on Wheels will miss her...and her many friends and fellow volunteers will too.
Alan Curryer, Board Chair, GSCMOW
I am so sorry to hear of Virginias passing. Yes she is still beautiful & a lovely sister. Even though we lived worlds apart, we loved talking on the phone to each other. Our growing up years were great times & we shared many good times together. I am sorry for the family in their loss.